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Irrational statements should be based on the assumption that any time you have the right to everyone's satisfaction. So, on some occasions, when you do not get what you want, you will because of his attitude to grief or anger, you will think, unless you have X, or you will die either, or will be was never denied the tragic happiness (X can represent love, friendship, status, respect, punctuality, perfect, beautiful, etc.). The desire to always want to own at any time, the idea can be met from the frustration of many of the angry base. Irritable man is always in a didactic way to express their wishes, for example, if I am a good person, they should appreciate this.
Other people have free will, they do not often go to your preferences by thought or act. You always thought that they must act in accordance with your wishes to not have any idea of the results. It is indeed often the opposite side is right. You command an angry and manipulative attempt to force hand, alienate others, very extreme of others, and make them more willing to please you. This is because other people do not like to be your behavior, control or domination. Your anger will only limit the possibility of creative problem-solving.
Do you think it unfair or unjust feeling is that most grievances - if not all - have the ultimate cause. In fact, we can define one to one to put your head in anger corresponding injustice suffered by the emotions.
Now we reveal the truth to you. You may be suffering


them as pills, maybe will see it as a revelation. The world does not exist a widely accepted concept of fairness or justice. With the relative fair irrefutable, just as Einstein's theory of relativity in space and time as shown. Einstein assumed - since then it has been confirmed by experiment - not the entire universe, there is a standard as "absolute time." Time to "speed up" can also be "slow." It depends on the observer's frame of reference. Similarly, "absolutely fair" is also not exist. "Fairness" is relative to the observer, a person that the fair, the eyes of another person may think very unfair. Even within a given culture is commonly accepted social norms and moral requirements to another culture, there will be essential changes. You can say this protest is not enough, and insisted that your own moral system is universal, but it does not so!
There is an evidence: when a lion eats a sheep when it fair? From a sheep's point of , it is not fair. It is evil, the deliberate murder. From the lion's point of , it is fair. It was hungry, which is its daily b, it feels it has the right to get these. Who is "on" it? The problem is not the existence of a final or universal answers, because there is no "absolute equity" to solve this problem. In fact, the fair is just a perceptual interpretation is an abstraction, a concept created out of their own. When you eat a hamburger, you think? This "unfair" it? For you, not the case. From bovine point of , it does! Who is the "correct" it? There is no final "real" answer.
Despite the fact that "absolutely fair" does not exist, however, personal and social ethics is still very important and very useful. I'm not respected anarchy. I just said about the moral statements and judgments fair is just a convention, rather than objective facts. Such as the Ten Commandments, the social and moral system in fact is the establishment of a whole society should abide by the rules. Such a system is to establish a basis for the description of every member of the group's own interests. If you act without considering the feelings and interests of others, you will eventually not have that much fun, because when they find that you are using them, they will retaliate sooner or later.
Define "fair" system would change the extent to which, depending on how many people accept it. Rules of conduct of a particular individual is unique, and many others may think it is bizarre. An example of this kind of thing, one of my patient will rituals every 50 minutes of the wash hand, she said doing so was to "do the right thing" and avoid the extreme feelings of guilt and anxiety. As a rule almost everyone accepted, it becomes a part of universal moral precepts, and even may become part of the law. Not allowed to kill the ring that is an example. However, there is in all cases all can be accepted for the "absolute" or "final and effective" system.
When we own personal desire to be confused with the universal moral rules, they will have encountered many of our daily grievances. When you're a person angry, claiming that they did "not fair" usually, the reality is, their behavior relative to a particular set of criteria or a set of reference is "fair", but this set of standards or reference standard or reference your different. You assume that they are "unfair", which indicates that the way you look at the problem not be universally accepted. Like the case of this example, each person should have had the same thought. However, we actually do not think the same. So, when you ignore it, condemn others "not fair", you in fact unnecessary from an extreme perspective on interaction, because other people will feel humiliated and resistance. Result, the two of you are none the wiser in the discussion of who is "right." The whole discussion is based on "absolute fairness" of the illusion.
Because there is relative equity, so naturally your grievances with a logical error. Although you believe in other people's behavior is not fair, you must be aware of his behavior is just not fair compared in terms of your value system. But he is based on his value system, not your value system to act. Usually not possible, the objective of his actions for him is very fair and reasonable. Thus, from his point of - this is the only possible basis for his actions - he has done is "fair." You want others to act fairly it? Then you should expect him, as he did to act, even if you do not like what he is doing, because in his own act within the system is fair! You can persuade him to change his mind attitude, and ultimately change his standards and his behavior at the same time, you can take action to ensure that you will not be what he was doing and hurt. However, when you tell yourself, "what he is doing is not fair" when, you fool themselves, is chasing an illusion!


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