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Defined in the strict sense of the personality disorder is a range of abnormal psychology between mental illness and behavioral characteristics between normal personality. Personality disorder (personality disorders) is a significant departure from normal personality traits, so that patients form a unique pattern of behavior, maladaptive to the environment, often affecting their social function, or even in conflict with society, to themselves or cause social consequences. Personality disorders often begin in childhood, adolescence stereotypes. Continued until adulthood, or life. Personality disorder sometimes associated with mental illness are similar or are prone to mental illness, but in itself is still non-pathological. Serious physical illness, disability, brain organic diseases, mental illness or catastrophic life experience personality characteristics that occur after the deviation, the disease should be included in the corresponding personality change. Abnormal behavior of children and adolescents of adult personality characteristics or articles from the impact of its social function is not to withhold a diagnosis of personality disorder. Studies on the less popular personality disorder is generally believed that certain institutions such as the monitoring bundle wrapped in cloth, the welfare sector with a high incidence; Langer and Michael that the minimum incidence of socio-economic groups are three times higher than the highest level; Leightons the that social d


isorder area safer areas the incidence rate of three times the total. Ten major categories are the following ten types of personality disorder: 1, 2, antisocial personality disorder, paranoid personality disorder 3, 4, schizoid personality disorder, schizotypal personality disorder 5, 6, compulsive personality disorder, narcissistic 7 personality disorder, borderline personality disorder 8, 9, histrionic personality disorder, avoidant personality disorder 10, more than three types of dependent personality disorder can be divided into several categories: A Class - Features: strange or bizarre, including paranoid , schizotypal, schizoid personality disorder B Class - Features: Performing, or emotional instability, including antisocial, borderline, histrionic and narcissistic personality disorder C - Features: anxiety or fear, including avoidant, dependent and compulsive personality disorder pathology has so far not fully understood, considered to be based on the quality of the results by environmental factors. Complications of abnormal personality personality disorder can also be caused by the disease, mainly the frontal lobe brain diseases (such as brain trauma, encephalitis, etc.), schizophrenia, personality disorder symptoms may appear, it may be due to frontal lobe dysfunction. 1 a, 1 biological factors, genetic factors: Family survey data suggest that relatives of the proband incidence of personality disorder was proportional to the blood ties, blood ties closer, the higher the incidence. Twins and foster children findings support the genetic factors play a role in the , but the family, social environment and education factors also can not be ignored. 2, brain development factors: the study found that emotional unstable personality disorder had significantly more neurological soft signs, neuropsychological tests also suggest that minimal brain dysfunction. EEG showed inconsistent with the age of immature, Williams found that aggressive behavior often men, 57% had abnormal EEG, and performance of the former multi-temporal area, he thinks the problem may or edge in the reticular activating system system. 3, chromosomal abnormalities 47XYY 47XXY syndrome syndrome and personality disorder in the prevalence rate is very high. Second, the social environment factor 1, social factors: the formation of the personality disorders occupy a very important position. Immature brain development of children, have greater plasticity, a strong spirit of the child's personality development will stimulate a serious impact, unreasonable pathological parenting can lead to the development of personality, lack of proper parenting or parent families is the occurrence of personality disorders Love important reasons. Patridge stressed the negative impact of morbid society, he considered that a healthy society is a barrier to avoid mental breakdown, poor social climate and the irrational social system can affect children's physical and mental health, and personality disorders in a certain relationship. 2, family education misconduct parental abandonment, abuse, tyranny, neglect, indulgence and pampering can affect children's personality development, leading to personality disorder. 3, loss of maternal psychological factors or the parents die young or suffer other trauma may also affect the child's personality development. A clinical, paranoid personality disorder: The main characteristics of suspicion and paranoia. Performance of the general nature of suspicion, mistrust or suspicion of others loyal, excessive vigilance and defense; strongly aware of their importance, there will be interpretation of events surrounding the "conspiracy", does not meet the reality of the first accounting concepts; Guofen conceit that they are right, the setbacks and failures attributed to others; prone to pathological jealousy; of frustration and rejection are particularly sensitive and can not understand others, the long-term heart, often quarrel with others or indulge in litigation, poor interpersonal relationships. Second, schizotypal personality disorder: The concept of strange appearance and behavior, interpersonal relationships and emotional indifference significant deficiencies are the main features. Happy wedding lack of a sense of human indifference, lack of enthusiasm and interest in life, lonely eccentricity, lack of Concert, its own way, very few s with people, and therefore less conflict with others. Third, the borderline personality disorder: also known as fulminant or aggressive personality disorder. To have significant behavioral and emotional impulse for the main features. Attack without warning, without considering the consequences, can not be controlled, easy to conflict with others. To recognize right after the attack, the general performance of the normal interval. Fourth, compulsive personality disorder: a critical and perfect as the main features. He hopes to follow a familiar routine, that elsewhere, and unable to adapt to new changes. Lack of imagination, not take advantage of the opportunity to do things too cautious and rigid, pre-repeated plan after repeated checks, patiently. Hesitation, indecision is one of its characteristics. Fifth, histrionic personality disorder: a high degree of self-centered, over-emotional and exaggerated speech and behavior to attract attention as the main features. Purpose is to attract others to acts of compassion and attention. Sixth, perverse personality disorder Germany: also known as antisocial personality disorder, to disregard the rights of others and violations of the rights of others (ie, behavior is not consistent with social norms) as the main features. Such people feeling cold, lack of human sympathy, indifference, lack of normal human love; irritability, impulsive behavior often occurs; even cause suffering to others, rarely a sense of guilt, lack of guilt; so often occurs live responsible behavior, and even acts of lawlessness, though of frequent punishment, are not easy to accept the lesson, incorrigible. The core is the lack of clinical manifestations of self-control. VII, narcissistic personality disorder: The people who consider themselves great, usually good limelight, like other people's attention and praise. Good "top-notch", only pay attention to their rights rather than do their duty. They never consider the interests of others, had asked others to do according to their will, do anything to share other people's cheap, without taking into account the impact on his reputation. Such people lack compassion, understanding, not other people's feelings. VIII, avoidant personality disorder: the social inhibition, feelings of inappropriate and overly sensitive to negative evaluation of the performance of a major personality disorder, significantly characterized by social withdrawal. September, schizotypal personality disorder. To from the social and human s in the expression of the performance was limited as the main personality disorders, patients are rarely smiled, nodded his head and body movements. Ten, dependent personality disorder: A class is over to take care of the acts of obedience and attachment as the main performance of the personality disorder whose main feature is the excessive dependence on others, and constitute a reason for this self-dilution is the fear of being abandoned. Scholars point with age, spared the tendency is gradually easing. Tolle been found inconsistent course of personality disorder, about 1 / 3 of the occurrence of social withdrawal and growing is not normal; 1 / 3 capacity to adapt to the environment in a mild improvement; 1 / 3 of the spirit of the event is still part of the damage. Whiteley pointed out that the good prognosis of the following conditions: well in previous grades in school; well in previous work and interpersonal relationships; emotional experience associated with those who can; involved in those activities in their respective communities. There are also reports: the later years of violence and suicide because of the dead more. Differential diagnosis of "Chinese Classification and Diagnostic Criteria of Mental Disorders Second Edition" in the personality disorder diagnostic criteria: First, the standard to conform to the following three symptoms: 1. Have a special pattern of behavior: the performance of the emotion, awareness, impulse control, perception and ways of thinking, etc., have significantly different attitudes and behavior. 2. Special behavior with long-term, continuous, not limited to mental illness exacerbation. 3. The universality of its special behavior, resulting in their social maladjustment. Second, the severity of standards with one of the following two: 1. Significantly impaired social or occupational functioning. 2, the subjective feel the pain. Third, the duration of the standard began in childhood, adolescence or early adulthood, aged 18 years and older. Fourth, not a personality disorder were excluded from the following diseases: 1, severe physical illness; 2, brain organic diseases; 3, mental illness: such as schizophrenia, affective psychosis; 4. Serious or catastrophic mental stimulation. There is no better type of treatment therapies, but should have an integrated approach to treatment. First, the drug treatment: Although drugs can not improve the structure of personality, but as symptomatic treatment to improve some of the symptoms is not good. Performance anxiety with obvious choice of benzodiazepine anti-anxiety drugs, EEG changes associated with fulminant personality disorder may be antiepileptic drugs, lithium carbonate to have impulsive or aggressive behavior are effective. Second, the psychiatric treatment: supportive care in the spirit of the act on the basis of treatment, or by participating in therapeutic group (also known as therapeutic social) organization's activities to control and improve their deviant behavior. Third, the spirit of the surgical treatment: temporal lobe resection or stereotactic surgery can improve the performance of a number of personality disorder, but the indications should be strictly controlled. Practice has proved that: a planned, systematic education and training, appropriate work for people with personality disorders is useful, the punishment rarely effective. Improve the quality and improving the environment is to prevent the main measures of personality disorder is a very arduous and long-term work. Characteristics and treatment of narcissistic personality disorder - the performance characteristics of narcissistic personality disorder diagnosis, there were no consistent standards. Generally believed that characterized mainly as follows: 1. Response to the criticism of anger, shame, or shame (though not necessarily immediately show it). 2. Like to instruct others, to others for their own services. 3. Too arrogant, to their own exaggerated, I hope the subject of special attention. 4. Convinced that his concern is unique to the world, some special characters can not be understood. 5. Of unlimited success, power, honor, beauty or ideal love non were fantasy. 6. Others think they should have no privileges. 7. Long lasting attention and praise. 8. Lack of compassion. 9. Has a strong jealousy. As long as there's five of them, can be diagnosed as narcissistic personality. Narcissistic Personality hysteria in many ways similar to the performance of personality, such as the emotional drama, and sometimes like the sexual advances and so on. The difference between the two is that the person hysteria outgoing personality, passion, and the narcissistic personality of the person introverted and indifferent. - Narcissistic Personality Disorder Treatment Narcissistic personality disorder on treatment, general use the following methods: 1. Self-centered of lifting. The main features of narcissistic personality is a self-centered, but the most self-centered life is in infancy stage. Thus, patients with narcissistic personality disorder is actually degraded to the behavior of infants. Judith Weir Crest in his "loss of necessary," a book says: "a fascination with people who do not want to lose in the cradle of his childhood, it can not meet the adult world." Therefore, treatment of narcissistic personality, must understand the behavior of those babies. You can think yourself too annoying personality characteristics and a list of your criticism of others down, to see how many babies of the ingredients. For example: long lasting attention and praise, attention will not be used if extreme behavior. like to instruct others, think of himself as overlord. good things for others coveted, extremely jealous of the success of others. By memories of his childhood, you can find more of their personality prototypes in childhood there. For example: attention and praise are always eager to parents, when parents ignore this, they rogue, or do mischief whimsical action in order to attract the attention of parents. childhood clothes to hand out rice to mouth, parents are servants. always want to share everything, and some other children, they would want to have. Understand that their behavior is a replica of his childhood childish behavior, you have to always remind ourselves that: I must work hard to achieve results to attract attention and praise of others. I am no longer a child, many things have to do it yourself. Each person has their own good things, I want to get what I deserve, but do not envy other people deserve it. You can also ask a person close to you as your supervisor, if you appear self-centered behavior, they give warnings and tips, urge your timely correction. Through these efforts, self-centered will gradually be eliminated. 2. Learn to love others. For people who are narcissistic, self-centered concept of light is not enough away, you must also learn to love others, only then can we truly appreciate the concept of giving up self-centered is a wise choice, because you first have to pay to get love love. Fromm in his "Art of Love," a book described the the love of children to follow "I love because I am loved" principle; Mature love follows, "I am loved because I love" principle; Immature love that "I love you because I need you"; mature love that "I need you because I love you." Virgin Sturgeon believe that, through love, we can transcend life. Narcissistic love is like the love of young children, immature love, therefore, should strive to be corrected. Love of life, the behavior of the simplest is to care for others, especially when you help others when needed. When people became ill, sent a greeting in a timely manner, the patient will be sincerely grateful to you; when people have financial difficulties, you are capable to Jienangxiangzhu, they will naturally get the respect of others. As long as you're more of a life of love to others, you will naturally reduce the narcissistic disorder. Performing histrionic personality disorder personality disorder is an excessive and exaggerated emotional words and deeds to attract attention as the main characteristics of personality disorders. Changing feelings of these people are vulnerable to influence others suggest, often want to praise and admire the leadership and their colleagues, would like to steal the show, many people actively participate in various activities, often dramatic appearance and behavior to attention. They often emotional, with their own likes and dislikes to determine things like the fantasy, words and actions are often far from the truth. Histrionic personality disorder diagnosis is subject to the three projects under the operation: exaggerated facial expressions, like acting like posturing, emotional experience superficial; implied high, it is easy influenced by others; self-centered, force others to meet his needs or will, give other people embarrassed or unhappy strong dissatisfaction; often eager to praise and sympathy, feelings of vulnerability; seek to stimulate, and actively participate in various social activities; requires constant attention to others, in order to attract attention, at the grandstand, alarmist, or the performance of the appearance and behavior to attract the opposite sex was too much; strong emotional response, variable, completely determine the good or bad according to their individual feelings; talk exaggerated, doping fantasy plot, the real details of the specific, difficult to check. Histrionic personality disorder were more or less in life there is, for example, a company of a young working woman, usually only pay attention to dress, to show off, to make the limelight in the unit on the dry matter. Only like to hear her praise was rightly ringing, sweet sound, do not love hearing against her voice, much less likely to hear criticism, mildly criticized for her had not, after quarreling not work. Her usual speech, behavior and dress love to imitate the movie stars and singing stars, as if she herself is a star-like, and so on. Histrionic personality disorder in addition to much noise outside the home is not peace, in the enterprise but also for the management headaches. Therefore, histrionic personality disorder treatment is necessary. Mainly in their treatment of psychotherapy-based, such as cognitive therapy, psychological treatment methods by enabling them to correct the deviation from the personality. - Avoidant personality disorder also known as the performance characteristics of avoidant personality avoidant personality, its most important feature is the behavior of withdrawal, mental inferiority, challenges and more evasive, or inability to cope. United States, "Mental Disorders Diagnostic and Statistical Manual" features of avoidant personality is defined as: 1. It is easy for others to criticize or disagree with the injury. 2. In addition to loved ones, there is no friend or somebody bends (or only one.) 3. Unless convinced that popular, always willing involvement of the general affairs of others. 4. Behavioral withdrawal, the need for interpersonal social activities or work always try to escape. 5. Psychological inferiority in social situations is always silent silent, afraid of becoming a joke, not afraid to answer the question. 6. Sensitive shy, afraid of embarrassment in front of others exposed. 7. But doing those ordinary things outside their normal being, always exaggerate the potential difficulties, dangers or potential risk. As long as one of the four, can be diagnosed as avoidant personality. Avoidant personality disorder have been criticized those who blame, people often feel trapped in self-esteem was hurt and the pain, and very difficult to extricate themselves. They are afraid to participate in social activities, worry about their words and deeds be ridiculed improper irony, therefore, even take part in collective activities, are mostly hiding in the quiet side. A general problem in dealing with, they often behave indecisive, and after deliberation, often wait until the determination, but missed the opportunity to solve the problem. In daily life, disciplined them more law-abiding, never do something that risky, step by step in addition to daily work, life and learning, very little to participate in social activities because they feel that their lack of energy. These people are generally in the unit "is leading work hard as a positive, serious and good staff, so often praised by leaders and colleagues, but when the leadership entrusted with the task, they are nothing but Xiangfangshefa decline, never to accept Guoduo social work. avoidant personality disorder and schizoid behavior of withdrawal of the act of withdrawal of personality disorder different: the former is not content with, or enjoy their solitude, not in dealing with people not because of their desire, their withdrawal from the behavior of psychological inferiority. want to travel with people, fear of being rejected, despise; want other people's concern and caring, but not close because of shyness. avoidant personality disorder causes of avoidant personality - is mainly due to the formation of inferiority . psychologists believe that inferiority originates in childhood, due to incompetence and pain arising from the feeling of incompetence, but also a person due to physical defects or certain mental defects (such as intelligence, memory, personality, etc.) that are contempt for themselves, consider themselves better than others in certain aspects of the psychological. Specifically, the inferiority of the produce are the following reasons: 1. lack of self-awareness and underestimate their own. Everyone always another person as a mirror to know themselves, if others made their own assessment of low, especially compared with an itative assessment of the person, it will affect their understanding, and thus underestimate yourself. It was found that more introverted character who, more willing to accept other people's low evaluation rather than accept someone else's high evaluation; in comparison with others in the process, but also like to take their own weaknesses and strengths than others, more so than the more discouraged, more than in the more inferior. 2. negative inhibition of self-confidence self-suggestion . And when each person faces a new situation, the first self-assess whether there will be able to cope with. some people because of lack of self-awareness, often feel that "I can not", because there is such a negative pre-self-suggestion, it will inhibition of self-confidence, increased tension, the psychological burden of the inevitable effects of poor work. The results will form a negative feedback role in influencing the future behavior, so a vicious cycle in which inferiority further. 3. setbacks impact. Some people susceptible to the neural process of high and low tolerance, a slight setback will be a heavy blow to them, become negative and pessimistic and self-esteem. In addition, physical defects, sex, origin, economic condition, political status work units, and so are likely to be the cause of inferiority. This inferiority complex is not properly removed, the passage of time has become a part of personality, resulting in the withdrawal behavior and attitude of avoiding distress to form avoidant personality disorder. - avoidant personality disorder treatment personality disorder of such treatment, from the following aspects. 1. Elimination of inferiority. (1) To correctly understand, and improve self-evaluation. The most important reason is the formation of inferiority can not correctly understand and treat yourself, so to eliminate the inferiority complex, to be recognized from the start to change. To be good at discovering their own strengths, confirm their results, not to see others perfect, fancying himself nothing, recognize that there will be others inadequate. only by improving self-evaluation in order to improve self-confidence, overcome inferiority complex. (2) To correctly understand the pros and cons of inferiority, improve self-confidence to overcome the inferiority complex. Some people have an inferiority complex as No benefits and disadvantages of the incurable disease, so feel despair, this is an incorrect understanding, it is not conducive to the elimination of inferiority, it will increase. psychologists believe that self-esteem of people not only to the proper understanding of their terms of expertise, but also to a correct of their own inferiority complex. low self-esteem are often very modest, good at understanding people, not competing with them for fame and fortune, Anfen easy-going, thoughtful, careful work, most people than to believe them, and willing to get along with them. that's the advantage of low self-esteem, not to keep their self-esteem, but to make them understand that feeling of inferiority has its positive side, not because of inferiority and despair, aware of these benefits can enhance confidence in life, lay the psychological foundation for the elimination of inferiority. (3) to conduct a positive self-suggestion, self-encouragement, that depends on human effort. When faced with a situation of self-confidence was low, it may embolden ourselves: "I will be successful: some will : "or may wish to ask themselves:" Everybody is capable, why not do? I not man? "If with" fight it "mentality to engage in their activities, prior experience but more emotional after the failure to will have self-confidence. 2. to overcome the barriers to interpersonal communication. avoidant personality of the people there are different degrees of human communication disorders, so must the job step task request to yourself a plan to make friends. starting relatively low level of , the task is relatively simple, since the difficulty of gradually deepening. For example: the first week, every day with colleagues (or neighbors, relatives, roommates, etc.) to chat for ten minutes. The second week, twenty minutes a day chatting with others at the same time with one of talk of a more than one minute. the third week, to keep the amount of time last week, making friends, find a friend's casual talk of no time. The fourth week, to keep the amount of time last week, making friends, finding a few friends on the weekend of small together once, random chat, or private banquet, or outing. fifth week, to keep the amount of time last week, making friends, and actively participate in the exchange of ideas, academic exchange, technology exchange. sixth week, to keep the amount of time last week, making friends , try to go with strangers or people who are not familiar with communication. Generally speaking, these steps may seem easy task, but seriously do it is not an easy thing.'d better find a supervisor and let him to evaluate the implementation of , and urge the stick. In fact, the task is beyond the sixth week of the living habits of ordinary people, but as a treatment to normal life in intensity than is appropriate. at the beginning of step task, you may find it very difficult to may feel that there is no fun, they should try to seek to overcome in order to achieve good therapeutic effect. dependent personality disorder - the performance characteristics of dependent personality disorder is more common in daily life personality disorder. the United States, "the diagnosis of mental disorders and Statistical Manual of "dependent personality characteristics will be defined as: 1. In the absence received from others a lot of advice and assurances on the everyday things, and can not make decisions. 2. helplessness, to let others make most of their own important decisions, such as where to live, the choice of what career and so on. 3. a sense of abandonment. knowing that others are wrong, echo, for fear of being abandoned by others. 4. no independence, it is difficult to start projects or doing things alone. 5 . excessive tolerance, willing to do to please others or their own poor do not want to do. 6. solitude and helplessness when unwell, or make every effort to escape loneliness. 7. When the close relationship between the suspension to feel helpless or crash 8. are often tormented by the idea of being abandoned. 9. is very susceptible to praise or criticism has not been harmed. as long as the five above-mentioned characteristics, can be diagnosed as dependent personality. dependent personality on too close with the attribution of a desire, this desire is forced, blind, irrational, nothing to do with the real feelings. dependent personality who would rather give up their personal taste, life, as long as he could find a patron, people always get the warmth of his satisfied. dependent personality made him this way more and more lazy attitude of life, vulnerability, lack of autonomy and creativity. As everywhere to eat dirt, dependent personality disorder will have more and more repression, this repression do something to stop him or what their own personal interests. psychologist Karen Horney in the analysis of dependent personality, noted that this type of people have the following characteristics: (1) feel their weak and helpless, there is a "small sand poor, I know" feeling. When you want to make your own decision, they feel helpless, like a lost boat harbor, like a lost girl friend godmother. (2) taken for granted consider others better than himself good than their own attractive, capable than their own. (3) unconsciously tend to think of others to evaluate themselves. dependent personality from early human development. children from their parents during childhood can not survive, impression in the child to protect him, nurture him, to meet all the needs of his parents are omnipotent, he must rely on their total loss of the protection of God, Peter. then if the parents too indulgent to encourage children to their parents, let them have a long opportunities for large and self-reliance, so that over time, in the eyes of the children will gradually give rise to psychological dependence on their parents or ity, is still not independent adulthood. a lack of confidence, always relying on others to make decisions, life can not afford to choose to adopt the tasks, work responsibility, dependent personality. Examples of such common occurrence in life, there is a well-known folk tale is representative. have a couple of old age a son, very happy, my son apple of his eye, and holding in the hand fear of flying, afraid of including in the mouth, what does not make him, his son grew up with basic living can not take care of themselves. One day, his wife for a journey, Peter son starved to death, so the thought of a way to bake a piece of cake, set in the son's neck, telling him when to eat a bite. and so they returned home, my son had starved to death. It turned out he only know to eat cake in front of the neck, do not know to turn the back of the cake Come eat. The story was somewhat bitter irony, but a similar phenomenon in real life can not say no, especially now that most families have only one child, parents, grandparents, grandparents are seen as baby, the child's daily heavily dependent on family life, resulting in daily living after growing up poor. a student who had reportedly passed the carrying students studying abroad, but the students that no one thought of him after leaving the country laundry, no one to care for fear of his life Finally, something had to give up the opportunity to go abroad. It is a small working committee of Tianjin on a survey of 1,500 primary and secondary students, of which 51.9% of the students finishing the long-term daily use by the parents, and school supplies; 74.4% of the students in the life and learning from their parents to do nothing; only 13.4% of the students sometimes do simple household chores, the situation is indeed worrying. From the above analysis, the current one-child education, if you do not pay close attention, some children are likely to form a dependent personality , Talking about the impact from small personal future, from the big perspective is the development of a generation and even the fate of the whole country. dependent personality disorder - treatment of dependent personality disorder treatment methods can be used as : 1. used to correct the law. dependent personality dependent behavior has become a habit, the treatment must first get rid of this bad habit. check your own behavior which are habitually rely on others to do, which is a white to make a decision . You can make records every day, mind over a week, then a strong sense of these events by independent, moderate, poor divided into three classes, weekly summary. of self-conscious event, after experiencing similar cases should stick to doing . For example, according to their own will one day wear bright clothes to work, then stick to wear bright clothes after work and not give up the gossip of others, until he was no longer like to wear these clothes up. these things, though small, is to correct bad habits of your breakthrough. of self-conscious middle of events, you should propose an improved method, and in subsequent operations and gradually implemented. For example, in setting the work plan, you follow the advice of friends, but these You do not appreciate, they should appreciate the reason why they do not come out and say it to your friends to listen to. Thus, in the work plan will be mixed with your own opinions of people, with the increase in their opinions, you can follow from the of others gradually changed completely since the decision. for poor self-awareness event, you can take sly control gradually strengthen, improve self-awareness. sly control method is required in the behavior of others, add the self-created colors. For example, You love the hint from the roses that she likes you to buy a flower for her, seems to have done to Newcastle. but gradually increased the number of these things later, you will feel that this will bring happiness to their own . If you take the initiative to propose to the Botanical Gardens for the weekend with a lover, or to visit the flower show with a lover, to prove your self-awareness has been greatly strengthened. dependent behavior can not be easily eliminated, once the formation of habits, you will find to their own After all, everything is difficult to determine and may unknowingly go back to the old road. To prevent this phenomenon, the simplest way is to find a supervisor, it is best to find their most dependent individuals. 2. rebuild their confidence method. If you simply get rid of the dependence of the habit, instead of looking for fundamental reasons, so dependent behavior may recur. rebuild their confidence method is fundamentally correct it. governing dependent personality disorder. The first step to eliminate the adverse childhood blotting. dependent people lack self-confidence, self-awareness is very low, which is bad childhood education in low self-esteem left marks on the hearts. You can childhood memories of parents, elders, friends said, with adverse effects on their own, then For example: "You're a fool, nothing will be done. "" Look at your thumbs, let me help you to do. "And so on, you put these words carefully sorted out, and then one by one to cognitive reconstruction, and to convey these words to your friends, relatives, let them do some things you try, do not use these words to accuse you of , but to enthusiastically encourage and help you. The second step, reconstruction courage. You can choose to do something slightly adventurous things, one a week, for example: one person alone to a nearby scenic spots a quick trip; alone recreational activities to participate in a day or a week provides "self-Day", no matter what the day, and never rely on others. by doing these things, you can increase your courage, change everything you rely on other people's weak. antisocial personality disorder antisocial personality, also known as psychopathy or social ills, such as perverse moral personality. In the various types of personality disorder, antisocial personality disorder is most psychologists and psychiatrists are important. According to psychiatry research results at home and psychologists point of , from anti-social personality of the main reasons: early death of his father or mother died, her parents divorced adopted son, congenital physical abnormalities, poor social environment, family environment and unreasonable social system impact, and the central nervous system immaturity and so on. is generally believed that family breakdown, child abandonment and neglect by their parents, was missing parents in their lives and emotional care and love, is the antisocial personality formation and development of the main social factors. child abandonment and neglect by their parents, including two meanings: First, parental indifference, emotional alienation, which makes the child can not develop interpersonal tame, passion and intimacy of the relationship. then children may learn form some of the demands of social life, but into the feelings of others are not properly developed. the so-called emotional shift in psychology who is the understanding of others and the ability to share the feelings of others, or from the thoughts and feelings on the themselves into other people's state of mind. Second, is the behavior of their parents or parents of the child's lack of consistency requirements. Parents have to play fast and loose performance, likes and dislikes, no rewards and punishments are meant to make children know what to do. As often lack follow the example, the child


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